Death Doula Services in Victoria, BC
end-of-life care
what are death doula services?
Death Doula in Victoria BC: Compassionate End-of-Life Support
Have you ever heard of a psychopomp? A psychopomp is an individual that comes along specifically for the purpose of guiding souls through the passage into the afterlife, without judgment. That term speaks to my role as a death doula in Victoria, BC. I’m here to walk alongside those experiencing life's final journey, offering gentle support and witnessing throughout the process.
Not only do I provide comfort for the dying, I help them decide on important decisions about their medical care and funeral. I also provide a listening ear and support for the family of the dying, as they deal with the many tasks associated with end-of-life care. My presence makes a real difference, as I create a safe space for open talks about end-of-life, bringing comfort and peace when it is needed most.
I honour everyone’s unique values and traditions around death. I’m here to ease the burden, providing clarity so you can focus on what truly matters in these precious moments.
About My Death Doula Support
It’s true that facing death is a deeply personal time of growth and challenge. My care as a death doula helps you find security and meaning, deepening bonds with yourself and your loved ones.
My help with planning lets you focus on what matters most. I make space for honest talks about how to create a good funeral and how to capture memories of the one who is passing. I research options for helping the dying person feel as comfortable and safe as possible. At the end, I help create a nurturing space for everyone throughout a sad and solemn time. I make phone calls to funeral homes at a time when the family needs the space to grieve. It's my honour to walk this path of giving heartfelt presence to those experiencing the process of dying. I’ve found that death doula support can bring peace and meaning to life's final chapter.
Services Provided by a Death Doula
I’m here to walk beside you, offering heartfelt support and honouring your needs and beliefs. I'll gently guide you through care choices, ensuring your wishes are heard and respected. I offer support for you and your loved ones as life's journey nears its close. My death doula care in Victoria, BC, creates a safe haven for facing end-of-life with grace and dignity.
I know each soul's path is unique. That's why I weave my care to fit your needs, like a warm blanket of comfort in uncertain times. I walk beside you and your family through this sacred transition, tending to your heart, spirit, and practical needs.
My aim is to help you find beauty and meaning in these precious last days, creating a gentle passage for your loved one. My practical help frees you to focus on what truly matters - spending your precious time with those you love, wrapped in comfort and dignity. I’ve found that this loving care can bring unexpected moments of peace and connection, even amidst life's final challenges.
My Services
I provide a range of services designed to support you and your family during this significant life transition:
Advance Care Planning: Creating a plan for end-of-life care preferences, respecting wishes and easing family stress
Healthcare Navigation: Guiding through healthcare and advocating, prioritizing comfort and reducing stress
Comfort Care: Providing emotional, spiritual, and physical support to improve quality of life
Family Support: Offering guidance to family caregivers, reducing stress and promoting self-care
11th Hour Support: Sitting vigil with the dying person and loved ones, nurturing throughout the death process
Home Funeral: Setting up a comfortable and intimate viewing at home, allowing for a longer and more connected goodbye
After Death Care: Helping tend to the body of the deceased in a loving and dignified way
Life Celebration: Assisting in planning rituals to honor life and ensure the story is remembered with love
My commitment is to make sure you and your family are supported throughout this journey, keeping your comfort and dignity as my top priority. I strive to create a peaceful and meaningful experience for all involved, honouring your unique wishes and values.
Emotional and Spiritual Care
I’m here to listen, creating a safe space for your thoughts and feelings. My approach is free from judgment, allowing you to be fully yourself. We'll explore spiritual practices that speak to your heart, always respecting your beliefs and values. Whether you find solace in quiet meditation, heartfelt rituals, or simply being heard, I’m here to support your well-being.
My care aims to bring comfort and peace, helping you rest knowing that your final wishes are met. Whether it’s recording your stories and memories, creating a keepsake album, or simply sitting by your side, I will be there to help you navigate the journey.
Practical Guidance and Advocacy
I’m here to help ensure your wishes are heard and honoured. Together, we'll create an advanced care plan that truly reflects your needs and values. I’m here to help you navigate the healthcare maze, making sure your voice is clear to your medical team and loved ones alike. I’ve seen how this careful planning can bring peace of mind, allowing you to focus on what matters most to you. My support is about empowering you and giving you a sense of control even when things feel uncertain. I’ll stand by you, advocating for your choices every step of the way.
Help with Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID) in BC
If you're thinking about Medical Assistance in Dying (MAID) in British Columbia, I can support you through the process. I'll explain the requirements, help with paperwork, and make sure people respect your wishes. I create a supportive space for you and your loved ones, honouring your choice with respect and care.
If you choose MAID, I offer special support for each step. From helping you get ready emotionally to being there in the final moments, I make sure you and your loved ones feel supported and at peace with your decision.
How to Talk to Someone Who's Grieving
It's hard to know what to say to someone who's grieving. I can guide you on how to comfort and support those who are mourning. We'll talk about kind ways to acknowledge their loss, show you care, and offer practical help. Sometimes, just being there and listening is the best support.
Grief after losing a family member is personal and often complex. I provide resources and support to help you through the grieving process. We'll look at ways to cope with loss, honour your loved one's memory, and gradually move forward. Together, we'll find healthy ways to grieve that fit your needs and culture.
The Importance of Healing Touch
As a somatic touch therapist, I know the importance of healing touch. This doesn’t change for those at the end of their life. The right kind of touch and light massage can be very comforting to people who are bedridden and suffering from terminal illness. I’m an expert at offering compassionate healing touch guided by the person receiving it. As a family, you can know your loved one’s needs for affection are being met as they are in the process of passing away.
Death Doula Services at Lone Peep Spirit Care in Victoria, BC
At Lone Peep Spirit Care, I offer kind support for you and your loved ones as life comes to a close. Here in Victoria, BC, my death doula care makes a big difference by creating space for families and their loved ones to experience the dying process with deep consciousness.
I know everyone's path is different, so I shape my care to fit your needs. I’m interested in your family history, your memories, your spiritual and religious traditions, your desires for a good death and a beautiful memorial. I'm with you and your family through this important time to care for your heart, mental health, and practical needs.
I aim to help you find beauty and meaning in these precious last days, creating a gentle passage through healing touch, memory keeping, therapeutic dialogue, memorial planning and more.
I can help you with:
Care planning: I’ll make a plan that fits your wishes and needs.
Emotional and spiritual support: I'll listen and comfort you and your loved ones.
After-death care: I'll help you care for the body with love and respect.
Life celebration: I'll help you plan ways to honour your life and memories.
MAID support: I offer kind guidance if you're considering Medical Assistance in Dying in BC.
Grief support: I provide resources and ways to cope with loss.
At Lone Peep Spirit Care, I'm here to support you through every step of this important time. I make sure you and your loved ones feel cared for and respected during life's final transition.
Allow your heart to guide your process.
I am here to honour you on the path.